\”Strive to Be The Best\” – Queen Shirley Okwudinma
Her Royal Majesty Ugoeze SHIRLEY OKWUDINMA recently bagged another Award at the just concluded ARISE AFRICA MAGAZINE AWARD.
She is CEO SHIRLEY SUPREMO FINISHING LIMITED
She is a dynamic entrepreneur; married to HRH Eze Samson Okwudinma blessed with four wonderful kids 2male and 2 female. She holds a B.ed English from the University of Nigeria Nsukka. The Dynamic Entrepreneur holds An Honorary Doctorate degree from the Global Harvest Christian University (Doctor of Humanities) READ Exclusive Interview with Arise Africa Magazine 👇
Congratulations ma for winning Distinguished Personality of The Year Award.
Can we really know what inspired you into the type of business you are presently into?
Right from onset, I have always been business inclined. The only difference is that I had a very good reason to be in this business. Some people once they want to venture into business, they expect the money to start rolling out immediately but it doesn\’t work out that way. Mind you as a business oriented person you are bond to take risk. Station your mind that it can be either of the two sides of a coin. If you want to venture into a business you really need to go into deep thinking to know your purpose, Challenges, Area of Specialization and goal for setting it up.
For me, I am doing this kind of business because I have passion for it; I am doing this because there is need to do so as it concerns my affection for the job, I am doing this to encourage people, to give a sense of belonging to people in the environment. To enhance people’s life.
Looking back, what do you think Shirley Supremo Finishings Ltd has achieved?
Looking at what we have on ground. If we didn’t establish Shirley Supremo Finishing Ltd, people would not have in mind of coming into Owerri when they are looking for quality, they would say Owerri is a dead zone and establishing this business has also brought lot of Hotels, Fast Food joints and tourism center into our Dear State to Imo. Right about now people come from all over the world to patronize us down here in the beautiful city of Owerri. I did so because I discovered that some people have the money but they don\’t know where to get Superior Quality rather before our coming as a justice League, people only get inferior quality down here.
From a humble beginning when we started and right now we have 2 big warehouses but yet it does not contain all that we have. We desire to build in no distant time a Showroom that would showcase a whole lot more furniture at the same time bigger than what we have on ground right now with unresisting quality.
Any plans of branching out outside owerri?
I have a warehouse in Lagos and not a showroom. Every business has its own secrets. At Lagos I distribute to people who in turn sales to their customers. It helps me to sell more. That doesn’t mean that I don’t mind coming to Lagos or another one in Abuja. This would definitely happen as the demands increases more we will also go worldwide(Diaspora).
How do you get to impact your philosophy to your sales representatives?
Buying and selling is a practical thing. In order to boost sales they are given incentives, bonus according to the percentage of sales they make each day. This makes them to attend to customers very well. They can\’t afford to allow anyone who walks into this place to go without making sales because they know there is instant reward/bonus for them outside their salary.
What is your advice to the youths?
There is a way our youths think. When you talk as a mother, they think you don’t really know “what is on board”. They see you as “old school”. But that would not stop us from offering our motherly advice.
The only thing I can tell our youths is that they should be who God has made them to be irrespective of the present socioeconomic situation, don’t give in to peer pressure, don\’t live your life trying to please anybody or working at your own detriments.
For instance; working for politicians who will use and dump you at the end of the day. A politician will use you during the elections and afterwards will dump you because they see you as a nuisance once they get to that seat. What happens in your life nothing?
How do you see yourself?
Sit down and ask yourself; what can I do in life? You need to balance the whole thing.
Do you see yourself cut out for a white collar job? Depending on salary or do you see yourself as someone who will create wealth for others? Do you see yourself as a political thug who will be carrying ballot boxes for politicians?
It doesn’t have to do with you being old or young. It has a lot to do with your values, Nature, culture – way of life and how you were brought up. Our environment plays a very big role in shaping most of our youths.
ON MENTORSHIP:
No matter what you aim at becoming, do yourself the favour of having a mentor. I am one person that believes in apprenticeship It gives you the leeway to a certain level in life. When turbulent times comes if you have not experienced it before, it would blow you off but when you pass through whatever challenge in life with a mentor by your side, you will be well guided and groomed. If you don’t look at life that way, you have not started in life.
I know where I want to be in life. I am focused. There are people as creative as you can not imagine but where are they? Why haven’t they been able to achieve greatness? They keep struggling. Bottom line is that they don’t have a good moral values, a little thing; they are swayed off their feet. But when you show them practically how it should be done they would go far in life.
So I advise young people to get a mentor. In that area you want to succeed in life, bring yourself under the tutelage of someone who is far more experienced than you.
Also as a young man plan for your future.
Tell us more. What are your future plans and visions?
I have a pet project for the youths. The kind of NGO that I would establish, I don’t need to go around begging for money because I am already in business to make enough money so as to help the youths. There is great need for us to pay attention to our youths because they are the ones that would take care of us when we are old.
When I see some pensioners and old people who are crying today, one question I often ask is what did they do when they were young? Why didn’t they save up for the rainy day? One can not afford to live a life that would be full of regrets at the end. For you, the time to start planning for your future is now.
On Face of Arise Africa:
I highly commend this organization for coming up with this initiative so as to encourage the young ones aspire to achieve great things in life.
“Failure” is an orphan but “Success” has so many relatives and friends. Once you succeed in life many people would come to associate themselves with you.
So strive to be the best at whatever you are doing. Never forget success is a Choice and Failure is also a Choice but Choose wisely.
Congratulations to the winners of your beauty pageant. You have to stay humble as this group is packaging you. Don\’t let the celebrity status get into your head. Submit yourself to the very platform that brought you, I am confident that this young man here would help in grooming and harnessing your talents well.
Thank you Iyke and your team for finding me worthy of this Award. We will keep doing what we love doing. It\’s good to know that what we are doing is recognized.
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HON UGOEZE SHIRLEY OKWUDINMA RECEIVES AWARD FROM IK ANYANWU |
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BAR OKWY OF FAMOUS NKWA GROUP |
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I.O.C WALTER DOING A SONG \”BEAUTY OF IMO -NMA SI NA IMO PUTA\” |
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HON IBEH DELIVERING THE KEY NOTE ADDRESS |
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REV FR PROF PHILIP OGBONNA DELIVERING A LECTURE |
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MR. CLIFF AYOZIE MANGER NEWS NTA 24 ABUJA – MC/ANCHOR OT HE EVENT |
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NKWA GROUP SINGING |
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BEST TERTIARY INSTITUTION – Ag VC IMSU in a handshake with MR CLIFF |
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Iyke Anyanwu hands over Award Plaque to Chima Anyanso – South East Entrepreneur of the year |
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CASTOR YBE – Receives Award at the Event |
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ROCHAS FOUNDATION COLLEGE EMERGED BEST SECONDARY SCHOOL IMO |
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BEST SUPPER STORE OF THE YEAR -MANAGER HOUSE OF FREEDA RECEIVES AWARD |
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GISTGATE RECEIVES BEST BLOGGER MEDAL OF HONOUR |
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HON IBEH & HON DEACON CHIKE OKAFOR of FEDERAL HOUSE OF REPS |
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REPRESENTATIVE OF FRANK NNEJI -ABC ENTREPRENEUR OF THE YEAR |
IMO STUDENT LEADERSHIP SUMMIT DATE: 20th -21 TH SEPT VENUE: IICC OWERRI
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IK ANYANWU – Imo @ 40 Commemorative Lecture speaking on the Way forward |
Ikechukwu Anyanwu is a life coach , highly sought after human resources specialist, Leadership blogger, leads and mentors thousands of business leaders across Afrika @ Fresh Minds Academy, Progressive Institute of Commerce and Arise Afrika. He speaks to thousands annually on Leadership and success. Into hospitality industry and journalism have paid his dues covering events, producer, Writer, life coach, Leadership expert, Editor in Chief/Publisher Arise Afrika Int, Founder Global Circle of friends Network (2005), CEO GCFN consult, LA Flavors Gardens, Sommies Limited, Manager Rennys Foods Limited, Fmr President Thunderbolt & Pioneer Pastor Living Word Campus Church IMSU. A dynamic youth mentor with a passion to equip, educate and empower the youths. Recreating their ethical and cultural values. impacting life leadership skills. He is Co organizer of Imo @40 commemorative lecture and Community Development Awards held on 18th June 2016 at Imo Concorde Hotel and a Facilitator of Imo Students Leadership Summit 2016.
Hon Chief Ugwumba Uche Nwosu is chief of Staff, Imo state Govt House, and his position as the closest political appointee to the number 1 citizen of Imo State is really an inspiration to the youths that they have been given a chance. He is a dynamic and experienced leader who has always had genuine interest in the affairs of students determined his position on this list, any discussion on the future of the youths without participation of the most Proactive Imo Citizen will seem incomplete and Ugwumba a man of impeccable records and achievement will represent the state Government as one of the speakers of the event. He is a detrabalized visionary Nigerian leader, businessman of great repute, a philanthropist per excellence,educationist, humanitarian. He played active role in Student Politics and unionism and is an authority on the subject to be discussed.
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Prof BEB Nwoke at Imo At 40 Lectures |
Prof BEB Nwoke – this professor from obowu Imo state is arguably one of the best brains at the moment, his records and profile in Leadership Vision Management and Enterprise is rivalled by very few in world today, the indepth of his Mentorship capacity is immense and his opinions are regarded high in the cross section of Nigeria.
Prof. BEB Nwoke is an eminent and distinguished Professor of Public Health Parasitology and Entomology, renowned consultant to the World Health Organisation, WHO, Formerly an Acting Vice-chancellor of IMSU appointed on the 7th of June 2011.
Gov. Okorocha during his first visit to the institution announced BEB Nwoke as Ag. V.C and old the world that the Prof. did not lobby to be appointed but that he made up his mind to appoint him as Ag.Vice Chancellor when he heard about the Professors reputation as a disciplinarian, with strong Christian values. In that singular action, history was replayed again as BEB Nwoke was similarly appointed Ag. VC by Rtd. Col. Tanko Zubairo in 1999 when he visited the institution and saw the accolades the Professor got from staff and students.
The 15 months spent by the Ag. VC brought about unprecedented change in the landscape and outlook of the institution. positive change and probity from people that fleeced the system under the old order. During his days as Ag VC he abolished the use of personal assistants (PAs) by lecturers. The PAs were used by some corrupt lecturers to collect “sorting”, sell handouts and engage in numerous sharp practices. Prof. Nwoke abolished the sale of books outside the university bookshop, reactivated the university inaugural lecture series with 6 professors having had their turn. BEB as he is fondly called, ensured the accreditation of Nursing Science, Electrical/Eletronic Engineering, Mechanical Engineering, Civil & Agric Engineering departments for the first time. He employed competent academic staff to fill up vacancies, ensured promotion of academic and non academic staff witheld as for many years. Recalcitrant lecturers were suspended for going against the university rules, a situation that was never heard of before now.
He is currently the Dean The school of post graduate studies Imo State University. The
Students Leadership and the way forward would not be complete without the erudite scholar.
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Chief Kennedy Zanders Special Guest/Awardee at Imo @ 40 |
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Rev Fr Prof Philip Ogbonna delivering lecture at Imo @ 40 |
Dr MIKE IHEZUO, a leadership & team expert, entrepreneurs & management pundit, a researcher and consultant. Lectures at one of the citadel of learning in imo State. He speaks across leadership, teamwork, conflicts, crisis, negotiations, technology exponent, entrepreneurship, management, in a quintessential motivational & public speaker.
AIG Donald Iroham (Rtd) is involved in debates on contemporary issues on Television and podiums. Engaged in voluntary services helping the less privileged in the poverty stricken rural communities. Adviser to Government on security issues served as a one time member Adhoc committee set up by the Head Nigerian Police on Reforms, Commissioner of Police Imo state, Aissistant Inspector General of Police of Zone 8 comprising of Kwara, Kogi and Ekiti State. Activities: Debate, Social work, Volunteer services. His wealth of experience would come handy in this all important summit.
Arch Kelechi okwulehie,a trained architect,with a core interest in infrastructural development,environmental management&preservation. He lectures at one of the state owned tertiary institutions in rivers state. He speaks extensively to youths,students and undergraduate audiences across the nation. He is an ordained Christian minister and has served in various capacities since his undergraduate days.he is a practically impactful speaker and spurs his listeners to positive action. strategic planning is one of his key competencies.
Mr. Kenneth Uche Obiakor is the founder of the Center for Education and Citizenship (CCE.ORG)- A globally focused NGO committed to the enrichment of Education & Citizenship in Nigeria. He has an undergraduate degree in Sociology/Anthropology and a Masters degree in International Law. He is a public speaker, writer and lecturer. Kenneth\’s further research and academic engagements are centered around Globalization, digitalization, social democracy and the demands of Literacy in Africa. He is a Father of three and an aspiring knight of the Catholic Church.
These and many more high profile speakers that includes Nature Dumale Kieghe, Dr Bumi Babs, Rev Barr Austin Nnadi, Pastor Larry Misheal, Pastor Obi Iwuchukwu, Hon Chief Mrs Getrude Odukah , HRM Queen Shirley Okwudinma, Hon Rodney Ajaenu, Dr Vitalis Orikeze Ajumbe, Hon Kinglsley Chime, Rev Dr Mercy Ogbodo, are the people expected as the major resource persons to present papers on the Leadership Summit put together by Imo state Government Bureau of Students Affairs. Supported by Zanders Fm and Ariseafrika.com
Theme: Mind Power For Relevance. Nigerian Students, Leadership and the way Forward with sub topics created from the above theme, expected to be handled, interactive session with the Executive Governor Imo who is the Chief Host.
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SPECIAL GUEST OF HONOUR AT THE SUMMIT |
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HIS EXCELLENCY PRINCE EZEAKONOBI MADUMERE – DEPUTY GOVERNOR IMO STATE |
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DR BUMI BABS- SPEAKER AT THE EVENT |
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KAYCEE BOFFIN IHEME – FACILITATOR |
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HON UJU KINGSLEY CHIME – SPEAKER |
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OBI IWUCHUKWU – RESOURCE PERSON |
\’I enjoyed every minute of being in Brazil and I have been talking to the other guys about playing in another Olympics. I\’m already looking forward to it and the countdown is on!
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Obi Mikel ,Katsuya,Samson Siasia |
He met with them two hours after Nigeria defeated Honduras 3-2 in the bronze medal play-off.
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Prof Chidi Osuagwu Delivering Lecture at Imo @ 40 |
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PROF CHIDI OSUAGWU BEING DECORATED WITH A MEDAL OF HONOUR BY PROF BEB NWOKE |
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HON MERE, PROF CHIDI & DR EKENAZI ICONS OF INTEGRITY |
The old Biafra is the Igbo idea of a just world.When Odumegwu Ojukwu talks ofBiafra of the mind, this is what he means. The dream for a just world is a universal human dream.But approach to its realization depends on worldview, which we have argued differs between individuals and peoples. Only people who share worldviews can share dreams! The Igbo mind dreams of a humane and pure society like ancient Biafra. A return to an ancestral dream society. The reason for such a dream is that the Igbo still live with the worldview and philosophical foundation of such a society.
That is why the name was adopted, 1967-70, to start with. And that is why ChimereIkoku could say in 1970, at the end of the war“If we cannot have Biafra, we must biafranize Nigeria!\’\’Biafranism is not simply a geographical expression, but an ideological conception of a just world, modeled on a legendary entity by that name. Model making is an attribute of man. The lgbo and all Eastern Nigerians, who indeed share the same cultural framework, do not want an unjust society. Whether it is called Biafra, Nigeria or \”British\” is not the issue. They just don\’t want an unjust society.
They do not subscribe to a society that subscribes to Joseph Stalin\’s dictum, \”It does not matter who votes, it does matter who counts the vote\”. Eastern Nigerians would want a society that ensures that the counter is not Mr. Tortoise. They just lack the skill in enduring injustice, as some others,because of their peculiar worldview and history. In any case they don\’t want injustice in a community of which they are part or which is part of their neighbourhood. Any community that plans to have them, as members, must be prepared to be just.
Luckily,all human shave the ability to access each other\’s world views by learning about it. This makes it possible for man to empathize and appreciate the dreams of others. All human societies also share the yearning for justice. Recently Gunnar Wiemann, First Secretary of theGerman mission to Nigeria, wrote an excellent article he presented at a conference on intercultural dialogue that held in Ghana. In the paper he said: \”Empathy is based on knowledge of the partners\’ worldview, of how they conceive this world and how they define their social relationships with in their own community and with those who do not belong to that community\”
A multicultural community that wants to endure must create the framework for its people to understand each other\’s worldviews. So that empathy can flow and ongoing reconciliation of actions effected. In a country, like Nigeria, where there is a cocktail of worldviews of indigenous and alien origins,a systematic approach to mutual understanding is imperative. Above all, agreements already arrived at should not be reneged on, as events following the Aburi accordadvise. Diplomacy might be considered a euphemism for an exercise in false hood by some people as a legitimate result of their cultural definition of truth.
WORLDVIEWS AND JUSTICE
In my investigations on the influence of world views on social justice,I made some telling findings. Using measures employed by the World Bank and other economic organizations, I recently isolated the three communities with the most equitable income distribution and the three with the most inequitable distributions to see where they came from in the world. The data was for between 1980 and 1990. The most equitable three were:Rural SouthKorea,Urban Chinaand the nationof Japan.The worst were:Botswana,Brazil and Guatemala.One would have expected the socialist countries to be one,two, and three.But,they were not!
My personal opinion is that Japan is the best major country in the world for her citizens,considered alongside other countries. What these best three countries have in common is Taoist worldview that emphasizes natural harmonies. What the worst three have in common is active collision of indigenous (African and Amerindian) and European worldviews, resulting in social chaos and manifest injustice.
Countries, like Nigeria,with a multiplicity of powerful worldviews should, therefore, be extra careful. They need thinking leaders! Certain worldviews are more tolerant of injustice than others.Some religious groups that believe in \”being chosen\”, automatically, structure injustice into their worldview and society. They might not be aware of or admit it, but they would, in practice, be Selective humanists. They would, in practice, be socially discriminatory against other humans.
Social Darwinists, who misinterpret the theory of evolution, use it to justify racism and genocide. Yet everybody claims from his worldview to be struggling for a just world. TheArab claim to struggle for a just world and the Americans claim to struggle for a justworld. The rest of the world is not clear on either\’s true intentions, but want a just world all the same. Clever world! OnyeobulajiOfo, ma ofomaraonyejiya! All claim commitment to Truth and Justice, but only Truth and Justice know who is committed to them.
History, though,is on the side of a more just world.More so,sincethe defeat of war as an effective instrument of political domination, in recent times. That is with the defeat of the communist Soviet Union in Afghanistan, after the defeat of the capitalist Americans in Vietnam in 1975. It is not easy to win wars anymore!
The lgbo have, for a thousand years,been struggling for a just world, but the world cannot understand! The Igbo believe in \”OGU\’; a concept that does not exist in the English language, but that can best be translated, very roughly, as \”Truth-Justice\”. It is, in fact, Ogu that is implied in the above quotation about \’Ofo\’,as Ofo is a symbol of a people\’s commitment to the universal force of Truth-Justice, Ogu.
The Igbo believe that this Force will ultimately win in the cosmic struggle between good and evil and are minded,therefore, towards alignment with a winningparty …the Universal Force for Good. It is the duty of all aligned with Ogu to fight for truth-justice, anywhere, whetherthe issue at stakedirectly concerns them or not. Thisis why the Igbo get involved in struggles for truth and justice, anywhere.
The Igbo, indeed, seethe struggle foruniversalTruth-Justice as a simpleissueof self- interest. This attitude is mostefficiently encapsulated in the popular proverb abouthowa hen shouldreactwhensheobserves a pheasant being quartered: \’Okukohuruebe a na-ayaokwa,yakpoisimbukwum;nihiihe a na-ayayabuotu\’. That says that a hen that observes a pheasant being quartered for food shouldshowserious concern, becauseof the logical implication oftheir anatomical similarity. Man should, universally, oppose oppression to avoid being personally oppressed!
It is of significant interest that hundreds of years of alienation from Igbolandand direct culture does not seem to erase this core value from the Igbo spirit.And that is why Ambassador Andrew Young could use theancestry ofhisfamily from Eastern Nigeria to explainhis reputed boldness and forthrightness. That was after heresigned as United States\’ambassador-to the UnitedNations, in the late 1970s, rather than actagainsthis conscience overPalestine. Young losthis top jobfor manifesting a key attribute of the Igbo genius: \’lack-of-diplomacy’ due to loveof Truth-justice. That is why, also, FrantzFanon, theoretician of third World liberation, frompredominantly IgboMartinique, would end up as a mastermind ofthe anti-colonial revolution in Algeria. World struggle for a just world!
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Unlike the 1979 Presidential Constitution and its successors, including the current 1999 version, the 1963 Constitution set clear parameters for territorial and fiscal federalism and carefully avoided undue centralization. For instance, section 140(1) (a) & (b) of the 1963 Constitution foreclosed any agitations in the guise of ‘resource control” While all minerals- solid or liquid –remain unequivocally the property of the government of the federation, the Constitution provided thus: “There shall be paid by the Federation to each region a sum equal to fifty percent of – the proceeds of any royalty received by the Federation from within that Region … In reciprocal terms, the regions were contributing towards the costs of administration of the federal government at the center in the proportion of what they received as their own share of proceeds of export, import and excise duties collected in each region by the region on behalf of the government at the centre . In the case of oil production, the same applied with the unforeseen exception that the federation will go into joint ventures and production sharing contracts that bring in revenues other than rents, royalties and taxes.